Most games are lost, not won.
For everything you have lost, you have gained something else.
You see this little hole? This moth's just about to emerge. It's in there right now, struggling. It's digging it's way through the thick hide of the cocoon..
Now, I could help it - take my knife, gently widen the opening, and the moth would be free - but it would be too weak to survive.
Struggle is the nature's way of strengthening it.
Not all who wander are lost.
If you run you stand a chance of losing, but if you don't run you've already lost